Comments on: Would Jehovah’s Witnesses Have Disfellowshipped and Shunned This Rape Victim If She Had Not Been Murdered? http://jwvictims.org/2014/05/03/would-jehovahs-witnesses-have-disfellowshipped-and-shunned-this-rape-victim-if-she-had-not-been-murdered/ Fri, 13 May 2016 03:52:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Coleen Deans http://jwvictims.org/2014/05/03/would-jehovahs-witnesses-have-disfellowshipped-and-shunned-this-rape-victim-if-she-had-not-been-murdered/comment-page-1/#comment-431 Tue, 12 Aug 2014 19:28:29 +0000 http://jwvictims.org/?p=1494#comment-431 Nicely put. Thank you!

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By: Coleen Deans http://jwvictims.org/2014/05/03/would-jehovahs-witnesses-have-disfellowshipped-and-shunned-this-rape-victim-if-she-had-not-been-murdered/comment-page-1/#comment-430 Tue, 12 Aug 2014 19:27:24 +0000 http://jwvictims.org/?p=1494#comment-430 Your comments bring me back to a time, years ago, when I was caught up in the brainwashing of the JW cult. 30 years of brainwashing. You are speaking words that have been burned into your thought process and you have lost touch with reality. I used to think it was all black or white – no gray areas. Leaving that religion – escaping – was one the hardest, bravest things I ever did. Personally, you sound like a moron, but I know why and I feel just the tiniest bit sorry for you. Your comments reflect the fact that you no longer have the capacity to think for yourself. You gave it up.

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By: Coleen Deans http://jwvictims.org/2014/05/03/would-jehovahs-witnesses-have-disfellowshipped-and-shunned-this-rape-victim-if-she-had-not-been-murdered/comment-page-1/#comment-429 Tue, 12 Aug 2014 19:20:26 +0000 http://jwvictims.org/?p=1494#comment-429 No JW can be raped that easy??? Are you out of your mind??? What planet do you live on??? I cannot believe that anyone would utter such a stupid question.

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By: SDL http://jwvictims.org/2014/05/03/would-jehovahs-witnesses-have-disfellowshipped-and-shunned-this-rape-victim-if-she-had-not-been-murdered/comment-page-1/#comment-152 Wed, 14 May 2014 14:53:40 +0000 http://jwvictims.org/?p=1494#comment-152 JWs use everything and everyone in the pursuit of their own sick and twisted world sovereignty agenda. Turnabout is Fairplay, dear Ayda Zulu. Also, JW women are sitting ducks in a competitive world because they’ve become so accustomed to being mentally and spiritually raped, daily, by a bunch of old men with an overgrown sense of entitlement from their new world order conspiracy as they advance their real estate holdings at all costs.

Rape is not about sex, my dear. It is about power. The “governing body” are such experts at it, you don’t even realize how far they are up your ass with a firm stick, controlling your every thought and turning you into a gaping asshole.

I hope you get help. No one cares whether you looked for this girl or not. It’s not about you. You are merely an assimilate of the Borganization you have been fucked over by.

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By: alexjamesisnotmyrealname http://jwvictims.org/2014/05/03/would-jehovahs-witnesses-have-disfellowshipped-and-shunned-this-rape-victim-if-she-had-not-been-murdered/comment-page-1/#comment-150 Tue, 13 May 2014 02:12:06 +0000 http://jwvictims.org/?p=1494#comment-150 That’s a very good point; would they share this with a householder at the door? Try telling a woman you meet in field service that belief and see how fast they run you off the property.

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By: James Clarke http://jwvictims.org/2014/05/03/would-jehovahs-witnesses-have-disfellowshipped-and-shunned-this-rape-victim-if-she-had-not-been-murdered/comment-page-1/#comment-149 Tue, 13 May 2014 02:00:57 +0000 http://jwvictims.org/?p=1494#comment-149 How to get away with rape:

Step 1: Become a JW
Step 2: Rape a woman who is alone
Step 3: Tell the elders she didn’t have a chaperone
Step 4: She’s disfellowshipped as it’s her fault.
Step 5: You’re in the clear.

Seriously though Ayda Zulu, would you say that to a householder when you’re out in the ministry? You’re a sick pig who thinks that rape is justified and the victims fault.

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By: Kerri http://jwvictims.org/2014/05/03/would-jehovahs-witnesses-have-disfellowshipped-and-shunned-this-rape-victim-if-she-had-not-been-murdered/comment-page-1/#comment-141 Tue, 13 May 2014 00:18:46 +0000 http://jwvictims.org/?p=1494#comment-141 Wow. What a disgusting thought process you have. So, a woman who is alone with a man for any reason deserves to be raped because she didn’t have a chaperon and should be disfellowshipped? Let me get this straight: She is a VICTIM OF RAPE and still deserves to be cut off from family and friends because she didn’t have a chaperon around? Are you out of your fucking mind?!

By the way, your post only proved the point of this blog post: That JW’s would deem Whitney deserving of being disfellowshipped if she’d lived because she was alone with a man. Your organization doesn’t run on biblical laws and rules, it runs on those that are man-made. NOWHERE in the bible does it say a man and woman need a chaperon if they’re going to be alone together. It’s your organization’s rule because they are so damn preoccupied with SEX, who’s having it, HOW they’re having it, etc. Except when it comes to children being sexually assaulted. Then your organization turns a blind eye and it doesn’t get reported to police in order to protect other children from having the same thing happen to them.

Let me tell you something: I’ve been on dates with men several times over. ALONE. I’ve never been raped. But had I been raped, that would not have been my fault. Furthermore, having a chaperon present would only serve to MASK the fact that the man is a rapist. So therefore, as a JW, I could very well have married someone capable of sexual assault because I would have never had the chance to be alone with him to learn who he REALLY is. Your entire religion is ridiculous, treats women as second-class citizens, and puts them in dangerous situations…and KEEPS them there.

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By: HappilyDA http://jwvictims.org/2014/05/03/would-jehovahs-witnesses-have-disfellowshipped-and-shunned-this-rape-victim-if-she-had-not-been-murdered/comment-page-1/#comment-140 Tue, 13 May 2014 00:17:09 +0000 http://jwvictims.org/?p=1494#comment-140 How can you, Ayda be so ignorant?

You said: “LASTLY NO JW sister can be raped that easy, as we chaperone our youth when they go out on dates, so if one gets raped while alone with a man, it is because they didn’t HAVE a chaperone and disobeyed organizational rules! Thus deserve being disfeLlowshipped!”

If this happened to YOU. Would you say the very words to yourself?? Probably not.

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By: alexjamesisnotmyrealname http://jwvictims.org/2014/05/03/would-jehovahs-witnesses-have-disfellowshipped-and-shunned-this-rape-victim-if-she-had-not-been-murdered/comment-page-1/#comment-139 Mon, 12 May 2014 23:42:48 +0000 http://jwvictims.org/?p=1494#comment-139 I need to comment again on your last paragraph because it is so obscene. Women and girls can be raped at school, on the way home from school, in their own homes, while working, while out jogging or riding a bike, anywhere. What makes you think date rape is the only possible scenario for a woman to be violated? Whitney kindly gave a ride to a neighbor and fellow JW, who raped her at gunpoint. You’re the one who just said she is to blame and deserved to be disfellowshipped because she was alone with a man without a chaperone or third party. You definitely owe her family an apology for saying that. Typical disgusting JW.

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By: alexjamesisnotmyrealname http://jwvictims.org/2014/05/03/would-jehovahs-witnesses-have-disfellowshipped-and-shunned-this-rape-victim-if-she-had-not-been-murdered/comment-page-1/#comment-138 Mon, 12 May 2014 23:38:12 +0000 http://jwvictims.org/?p=1494#comment-138 You are a terrible person to say that if someone gets raped when alone with a man it’s their fault for not having a chaperone. There is no scripture that says you cannot be alone with someone; even Jesus set the example by talking to the woman at the well. If two people are dating, how can they talk privately about their plans and goals for the future and other confidential issues if someone is always there? The Pharisees said men and women shouldn’t be alone together, and they were destroyed for making up arbitrary rules like that.

Shouldn’t rape be the man’s fault alone, not the woman’s responsibility? As for Jehovah judging, tell that to the elders who sit on judicial committees and “judge” heart conditions and actions. You also said that someone “deserves” being disfellowshipped, so you just judged yourself. Hypocrite. First remove the rafter from your own eye and then you can see clearly how to remove the splinter from another’s. Sound familiar?

As for me using Whitney for my “agenda,” as I said, I’m not the one grilling rape victims, demanding they respond a certain way, and threatening them with shunning if they don’t scream (based on the law of Moses which Jesus fulfilled by the way), and I’m not the one who said a weapon doesn’t “weaken the argument” for resisting, which was never mentioned in the scriptures in the first place. The men who made up those rules are the obscene, vulgar ones, not me.

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